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Having gone through a divorce and deciding to start over with another person, you need to make sure that the relationship is really serious. Only then it is necessary to introduce a child to the new Pope. We cannot allow the child’s attachment to the man, doubting something. The child will have to endure another loss, and for the child’s mind such experiments are very dangerous.

To acquaint the child with the new Pope gradually better, especially because many children did not welcome the emergence of a new mom friend. Often the child sees the newest member of the family bayonets, and this is not the best way affects adult relationships. If the mother and her new husband together will fight with the child, then many problems will not keep you waiting.

First of all, you should tell the child about his chosen one, to help him get used to the idea that mom’s life was a man whom she loves. Correspondence with a child, you should meet the man, telling him about the Hobbies and preferences of your child. So two people will be easier to find a common language, which is the first step to acceptance of each other.

First it is better to arrange a meeting on neutral territory. You should not invite a man into the house until the baby get used to his appearance and in his mother’s life. The child himself will speak on this topic at the time. Then you will need to discuss with him some the changes that will lead to a solution to live together. The child needs to be told, as would be a new life, to convince him to move to a new residence (if necessary). Of course, it is better if change is expected not so much, especially at first.

Categorically you can’t force a child to call her new husband dad. When it is ripe it will come to that. This is easiest obtained in children who never even met my dad. Older children to come to this difficult, especially if they communicate with the real father, and with the new Pope they didn’t all add up. Better to let things take their course, without hassle and pressure.

If the child is actively communicates with his father, it is unacceptable to talk about a former humiliating things, setting up against him. Also short-sighted to deceive the child about who his real father, even if he doesn’t remember it. The truth is hard to hide, and to lose the child’s trust easily. Who but a mother can best explain what a warm feeling to the stepfather not be a betrayal to my dad. The child must learn the simple truth: he has every right to be nice to the man who became his close friend, although not the biological father.

As if the woman was offended by ex-husband, she needs to learn to control their emotions. It is no secret that many children after the divorce of parents continue to treat tenderly the father and secretly angry at his mother, who preferred the other. The child is not inclined to analyze, anyone who has gone actually. If a father sets up against the stepfather, the mother will have to talk to them. The child needs to explain that the new husband does not claim the role of the father and is not going to take his place, and his father to try to convey that he traumatize the psyche of the child and should not behave, if the son or daughter he really roads.

Absorbed new mom’s feelings should not forget about the relationship of the child and stepfather. One cannot ignore the rude attitude of the stepfather to the child. Of course, some children deliberately provoke conflict, trying to break my mother with her new husband. But happens so that the child prefers to run away from home if the mother refuses to believe him and my step-father actually is to him a real tyrant.

Little man needs to be sure she still loves him and no one can change the strength of that love. Largely from women depends on how peaceful and harmonious will be the relationship in the newly made family. It needs the warmth and love to resolve all the conflicts, which, of course, will occur repeatedly. If two of the most important in human life can find common ground, we can assume that women’s happiness took place.